
Just a recap of what we know widely... Krishna was the king of Dwaraka and Kuselan was his childhood friend. Krishna was rich whereas his friend was leading a poor life. Kuselan's wife once requested him to meet Krishna and seek his help to overcome their poverty. Kuselan accepting her request, journeyed to meet his friend with some beaten-rice [aval] as offering to his friend. Krishna on seeing Kuselan felt very happy, accepted the offering from him ate it. Kuselan after meeting his friend returned to his neighborhood, without requesting for money in return, just to see that all of his wife's wealth requirements are already satisfied..
Now, the same version of story; close transliteration to what i read in Bhagavatam. The core story is still the same, but the way few small incidents are narrated and emotions are portrayed are excellent in the original version. I pretty well know the emotions will be lost during my translation, but let this create a drop of interest in you guys to read the original story to enjoy its fullness.
With more rhyming and timing...
On the other end, Kuselan, the childhood friend of Krishna was leading a normal life. Though he possessed no wealth, he had a good wife and children. Kuselan was always thinking about his friend and his god, Krishna. He had a burning desire in him to meet Krishna, but his family conditions didn't allow him. Now, Kuselan's wife thought if her husband could meet Krishna, he could help them to overcome their poverty. But she didnt have the guts to request her husband to seek Krishna for financial help. Though poor, Kuselan had his self-respect. So, one day she requested her husband to go and meet Krishna, since he always remembers and speaks about him.
Krishna then took Kuselan to his personal chamber and seated him on his bed and sat down besides him. Krishna then asked Kuselan "What did you bring for me?". Only now Kuselan recovered back and remembered about the beaten-rice that he brought to Krishna. But he is again in shy and trouble. Will a king like Krishna accept this offering? With hesitation, Kuselan offered the rice that he brought to Krishna.
Krishna said "Precious offering from other kings or merchants to me in turn expects something from me. A king offering me gold expects me to threaten his neighboring king for not to mess with them. Other merchant waiting to offer pearls expect me to do some thing in favor of him".
"But this offering is 'only for me' and has no expectations in it".
Krishna then took the second handful of beaten-rice and ate it happily. He also offered it to his beloved Rukmani. Since the offering came from a poor-house, the beaten-rice was not cleaned up properly and had some husk in it. On husk scratched Krishna's mouth and it started bleeding. Kuselan on seeing this went into tears and cursed him for offering a dirty food to king. He remembered how Yasoda cared Krishna during his childhood, making sure even the softest butter would not harm him. Now the husky offering brought him trouble. But Krishna did not care about this. He was completely submerged inside the love of his devotee.
Now he took the third handful of rice and ate it happily. Kuselan couldn't do anything except watching Krishna with tears of joy. Krishna when tried to eat the fourth handful of beatren-rice, Rukmani stopped Krishna and said "Its enough". Krishna accepted her request.
After few days, Kuselan requested Krishna to relieve him home, since his wife and kids will be waiting. He didn't seek any financial help from Krishna, nor was that his intention for the journey. But, his heart was full of love and completeness in seeing his friend; the god himself.
So, whatz missing to be told is "Why did Rukmani stop Krishna from eating the fourth-handful of rice?". With the first two handfuls of rice, Krishna liberated Kuselan from his past and future deeds. The third handful of offering accepted gave him Moksha. This is the best a god can offer to his devotee. But Krishna was so submerged in the pure love of his devotee, he gave him everything already, still went ahead. I hope, that could put Kuselan more than God himself. Rukmani sensing that Krishna would even give up himself for a true love, stopped him from eating the fourth handful of rice.
The story ends here folks. This is just a story in the ocean of Bhagavatam. Whenever we think of friendship, we remember Karna-Duriyodhana or the Krishna-Kusela stories. The first story is all about very true and trustful friendship, but the latter is about love and devotion, not just friendship. For Karna, there is a reason for friendship; Duriyodhana saved him from an insult, gave him a kingdom to rule and treated him equal to other kings. But for Krishna-Kusela there are no outward reasons, except they are childhood friends. What knit them together is the devotion Kuselan had for Krishna.
Moral of the story - Nothing... Just read and enjoy..
The story ends here folks. This is just a story in the ocean of Bhagavatam. Whenever we think of friendship, we remember Karna-Duriyodhana or the Krishna-Kusela stories. The first story is all about very true and trustful friendship, but the latter is about love and devotion, not just friendship. For Karna, there is a reason for friendship; Duriyodhana saved him from an insult, gave him a kingdom to rule and treated him equal to other kings. But for Krishna-Kusela there are no outward reasons, except they are childhood friends. What knit them together is the devotion Kuselan had for Krishna.
Moral of the story - Nothing... Just read and enjoy..